I recently had a client who was working on attracting love into her life. As she lamented about her many relationship failures, a simple question kept presenting itself in my mind: Would you date yourself? What I mean by this is, would you be willing to date someone who is in the same place in life as you are? What if they were in the same physical or financial shape? Or how about someone with the same spiritual and political beliefs? Here is what your answer tells me about your relationship karma.
Hell to the no!
You would be surprised by how many people are repulsed by the idea of dating themselves. Friends and clients will quickly list the reasons that they wouldn’t date someone in a similar position. They might say that they would only date someone:
- More attractive
- With a more established career
- Younger
- In better shape
- Who has more money
